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Father's Day, Mother's Day, Christmas and other family holidays can be particularly difficult for those still grieving a recent loss. Social media, advertisements and family ties make it hard to ignore your relationship with your dad on this day.
No matter how much time has passed since you lost your dad, Father's Day can be a difficult holiday. Here are some ways you can honor your dad's life this Father's Day.
Remembering loved ones who have passed can be painful, especially in the first year. It's easy to fall in the habit of only remembering the bad. Memories of the hospital, funeral, and family tension might outweigh recollections of time spent with dad. Though this is a normal part of grief, it's healthy to remember the good times, even if those memories are almost too painful to bear. Father's Day may be the perfect time to lean into your grief.
Even if it is painful to think of other fathers, one way to honor your dad's life is to celebrate other father figures in your life. Let grandads, stepdads, husbands, or other dads in your life know that they are appreciated.
If you don't want to spend Father's Day with others, but wish to celebrate other father figures in your life, consider giving a gift in advance, or planning another day and time to honor them.
One of the best ways to celebrate life is to share stories and memories with others. Family, friends and those who knew your father will have stories to share. Talking, remembering and mourning together is good for everyone who wants to be involved, as it allows grieving people to express themselves with others who share the same pain. Reminiscing about your dad is a wonderful way to keep his memory alive.
No matter the time that has passed, it's never too late to write a tribute in honor of your father. Even if an obituary was written to announce his death, the notice may not have fully reflected his unique personality, interests and passions, and with the passage of time, you may have other thoughts and feelings you wish to share.
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It might be the right time to take a break from your normal routine and practice some self-care. Self-care looks different for everyone, but can involve anything that leaves you feeling restored, refreshed and cared for. Exercise, rest, practicing a hobby or simply taking a pause to assess can all be forms of self-care.
If Father's Day is a tough time for you, it might be a day to indulge. Treat yourself.
There's no need to torture yourself with a Father's Day family gathering if your heart feels like it's in the grave. You may not be ready to talk with others or celebrate Father's Day — and that's 100% okay. Disengaging from emotional pain can actually be a healthy way of coping. It's valid and healthy to know your limits.
Disengaging from a cultural holiday like Father's Day isn't always easy, so it might help to unplug, and divert your attention to other parts of your life. Maybe next year will be different; maybe it won't. However you spend the day, be kind to yourself.
Though there are many wonderful dads out there, it's not uncommon to have a complicated relationship with your father or father figure. If this is the case for you, Father's Day may have always been a difficult day. Unfortunately, those who have strained parental relationships often face more complicated grief when their mom or dad passes away.
If Father's Day is extra charged for you, honor your feelings. Don't bury emotions, or try to pretend like you're fine. However you reflect on your dad's life this Father's Day is another step forward in your grief journey, even if it isn't all positive.
When you're grieving, there are some days that you just need to get through as best you can. Whether you want to remember and memorialize your dad this Father's Day, or forget about your loss altogether, there's no 'right way' to celebrate a fatherless Father's Day. Giving yourself permission to do it your own way is the greatest way to honor your dad, and yourself, this weeked.
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